Spaghetti, Paperclip, or Reed?

A useful concept I found in The Broken CEO by Chris Pearse is the difference between stress and strain, and their relationship to resilience:

  • Stress = the force applied to an object

  • Strain = the response to stress; amount of bend — and breaking point

  • Resilience = the ability to bounce back from stress

These differences can be illustrated through three objects: uncooked spaghetti, a paperclip, and a reed (of grass or similar). Each responds to stress in a unique way. They all bend, but from there things differ…

Bend, then break

Spaghetti under strain will snap under too much stress. However, under moderate stress, it will return to its original shape. This is elasticity.

Bend, then stay

A paperclip will also bend, but will take on new shape as a response to stress. This is plasticity.

Bend and bounce back

Close-up of a reed swaying in the wind against a purple sky.

Photo by Xiaolong Wong on Unsplash

Now the reed…the reed can tolerate much stress, without losing shape or breaking. The reed bounces back from stress. This is resiliency.

Be like the reed

Where the spaghetti is brittle, the reed is strong. Where the paperclip is impressionable, the reed has integrity.

What needs to happen to become more reed-like? What is the simplest, smallest thing you can do today to start?

Kim Witten, PhD

Kim is a Transformational Coach, Business Consultant and Experience Designer who helps people make better sense of what they do. Gain clarity and actionable insights to help you achieve your goals and make a huge impact in all areas of your life and work.

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